How to Get a Guy to Like You

By Lu Gardner


It seems you have met the perfect guy. He is the whole package that you have been wanting in a boyfriend or husband, and now it's time to hook him before he has an opportunity to get away!

You needn't be too concerned about it as there are many things you can do to make sure he sticks around. Many books have been written on the subject, but here are just some key factors:

1. Do not give others the opportunity pull him away.

Do you know what a wallflower is? In the case of relationships, a wallflower is somebody who stands against the wall and does not engage in dialog with potential suitors.

If you happen to wonder "how do I get him to like me", the first thing is to get on the ball and interact with him with meaningful conversations. Despite what you may assume, he might not even know you exist! Bring your self into existence and say something, even if it is as simple as "Hey" (Be sure to smile big)!

2. Show that you are at ease in being with him

Typically being nervous can work to your advantage. many men don't care to hang around with somebody who doesn't trust in themselves. If you are too nervous to lock eyes with him, say hi to him or carry a conversation with him, he'll notice. It could result into a disaster.

Keep calm - or no less than stay calm on the outside. Guys can figure out when ladies are nervous and it's not exactly a turn on. Play it easy and he'll see you as a peaceful, cool and collected form of girl! A girl that's confident attracts guys.

3. Find a Common Interest

The best way to make a guy like you is to spend time with him.

On the other hand, one of the best ways to spend time with him is to do one thing that you have in common.

If you enjoy sitting through a movie, but he would rather be out watching some baseball game, try to discover something else you both can enjoy - perhaps you both like the outside and do some hiking together.

Ask him to help you with the ropes on packing gear for a day - you could know more about it than he does, however that doesn't mean you can't fake the need for his help!




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