Your relationship with your partner should be cultivated every day. You and your spouse need to do all that you can to keep the love between you both alive. Ensure you avoid doing these things below if you need a blissful, flourishing, gratifying and loving marriage.
1. Overcommitment to Curricular Activities and Stress
Although it could be possible (many busy people can still have a flourishing marriage) but many and intense activities outside your marriage can worsen your relationship with your partner. Young couples, especially, have a hard time balancing school, kids, starting a business, reconstructing their home, and work in their relationship. Many marriages fall to pieces when both couples are too tied up to spend some time together and cultivate their relationship. This doesn't suggest that you should not do things outside your marriage. Just be certain to find a good balance between the activities in your life outside your relationship and time with your spouse.
Can you imagine what life would look like for a husband who spends more time at work than he does with his wife? If he does not cultivate the bond he has with his wife on a daily basis, his wife is more likely to build resentment and loneliness (especially if he is too tired to talk when he gets home). It's vital to take time out of your day to connect on a satisfying level with your other half.
2. Are Your Fulfilling Your Spouse's Needs?
Are you a giver or taker? If a relationship is composed of 2 takers, their marriage is going to suffer. Selfishness has no place in a relationship. Be conscious of your spouse's wants as well as they ought to be aware with yours. A marriage where both couples highest needs are met will overcome any difficulty that dares to threaten their relationship. On the other hand, 2 givers in a marriage are set to have a successful and flourishing relationship. Most marriages that fail are mostly due to one (if not both) partner is not meeting their spouse's needs. Think about, do you believe a couple who fulfills each other's physical and emotional needs have many problems in their relationship?
3. Do You Have Unachievable Expectations
Many couples go into a marriage with a certain expectation that only sets up their spouse to fail. Ladies are culprits when it comes to this. Many ladies have high expectations of their husband. Most of these high expectations are from what they've learned through the media. These women have predetermined romantic notions of what their marriage should be. Some partners do this too. Instead they have expectations of a domesticated wife who will do all of the cooking, cleaning and household jobs in the house. Ensure your expectations are realistic. Your not living in a fantasy world where your life is a movie. You are only setting yourself up for major unhappiness if you don't keep your expectations on a realistic level.
1. Overcommitment to Curricular Activities and Stress
Although it could be possible (many busy people can still have a flourishing marriage) but many and intense activities outside your marriage can worsen your relationship with your partner. Young couples, especially, have a hard time balancing school, kids, starting a business, reconstructing their home, and work in their relationship. Many marriages fall to pieces when both couples are too tied up to spend some time together and cultivate their relationship. This doesn't suggest that you should not do things outside your marriage. Just be certain to find a good balance between the activities in your life outside your relationship and time with your spouse.
Can you imagine what life would look like for a husband who spends more time at work than he does with his wife? If he does not cultivate the bond he has with his wife on a daily basis, his wife is more likely to build resentment and loneliness (especially if he is too tired to talk when he gets home). It's vital to take time out of your day to connect on a satisfying level with your other half.
2. Are Your Fulfilling Your Spouse's Needs?
Are you a giver or taker? If a relationship is composed of 2 takers, their marriage is going to suffer. Selfishness has no place in a relationship. Be conscious of your spouse's wants as well as they ought to be aware with yours. A marriage where both couples highest needs are met will overcome any difficulty that dares to threaten their relationship. On the other hand, 2 givers in a marriage are set to have a successful and flourishing relationship. Most marriages that fail are mostly due to one (if not both) partner is not meeting their spouse's needs. Think about, do you believe a couple who fulfills each other's physical and emotional needs have many problems in their relationship?
3. Do You Have Unachievable Expectations
Many couples go into a marriage with a certain expectation that only sets up their spouse to fail. Ladies are culprits when it comes to this. Many ladies have high expectations of their husband. Most of these high expectations are from what they've learned through the media. These women have predetermined romantic notions of what their marriage should be. Some partners do this too. Instead they have expectations of a domesticated wife who will do all of the cooking, cleaning and household jobs in the house. Ensure your expectations are realistic. Your not living in a fantasy world where your life is a movie. You are only setting yourself up for major unhappiness if you don't keep your expectations on a realistic level.
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